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I just have no idea what to do, this has happened...a couple times now.

I don't think a lot of people think I'm really hot or anything, but after the past weeks, I think a couple random girls...are kinda..just, looking in my direction a lot.... :oops:

uh, at first I think it's just some coincedence...but it keeps happening with the same girl a couple times. People I talk about with say i should go up and say hi, or ask for their number ^_^; but I'm kinda a shy person, and i'm flattered and embarressed all at the same time.

1.) How would/did you handle the situation?
2.) When people "make eyes" at other people, what exactly are they trying to even say?
3.) ......I'm just to shy anyway... :(

Do the 1,2, 3 check next time. 1 - Check your zipper, 2 check your suroundings, 3 ask a friend or look in a mirror to see if something is stuck on your face.

I guess this is at school?

If she is staring at you, then do this:

1) Stare back
2) Smile
3) Look down
4) Look back up

If she is still staring and now smiling, you're in. Go say hello like a nice person.

If you're feeling uber-stealthy, first ask around to find out a few things about her: her name, her interests, her hobbies. You can use this info to study up on those subjects she is interested in, and thereby have topics to discuss with her when you go say hello.
;3

Sage: :shock: ...wow, I didn't think about those things as much....i'd better make sure of those.

Tuna: Hey, that sounds like something I could do! thanks a lot. :D

Wynni: I guess I could try... :oops:

Thanks everybody. eh heh. ^_^

Edit: It first started happening at my work, I bus at a cafe and everytime I passed I saw this girl who looked maybe a little older then me looking "in my general direction. I was embarressed to leave the kitchen, but I realized I should still be working so I don't get canned. ( :roll: )
But her table had already left when I went back. "....ah..oh well.. :oops: "

Well,

1 Check the things Sage mentioned

2 Choices: Faint, blush, smile, make a funny face, wave, blow a kiss :shock:

3 ????

4 Profit

You say.

"yo baby, you baby yo, See I noticed you noticing me. And I just wanted to put you on notice, that I noticed you too." Works every time.

*tosses bricks at fuzzle*
Fuzzyboy, your art is awesome, but do not give relationship advice, please. I can't really say anything better than that, but that's not what to say.

X_x you bricked me.

I hope you have a warranty on this fuzzle. Fuzzle.co has a strict return policy O_o

And thats not real advice :3 I'm not good at talking to girls, but most of the girls I meet are ...just...awful.

Here is the extent of my useful advice concerning relationships:
Be yourself. Do not use a cheesy pickup line if you actually want to date the girl. Follow Wynni and Tuna's advice, they both have successful relationships. Most of the rest of us do not, leaving our advice suspect. ;)

If she looks at you frequently then there must be doimg something that is attracting her. If you want to have a conversation with her but your too shy, then have her approach you . To get her to come to you just keep on doing whatever that attracts her. Don't know what that is, then just follow Tuna's advise. There had been a few times, where girls made the "first move" on me and belive me it sometimes works. Whatever happens it can't hurt to try.

If theres something we can learn, if you think a girl likes you, she does not. I can't tell you how many times I've gone through that. With the stares, the attention, the waves, the looks, it just about always means nothing. They like to just throw in "their boyfriend" after drawing you in like they are showing off some kind of female mental game dominance.

Amen, its easier than trying to remember the lies you told her.