School Bullys

xbox360clock · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 9:33 pm

Hi me again. I got another question and no it`s not about nuclear attack,
it`s about school bullys I got a problem with a kid....Well I won`t say any names, but this what is happening there is a kid that is getting in my face and yelling FAT [censored] FAT [censored], FAT **** FAT ****, YOUR A FAT MUTHER ******, and so on but here`s the catch I am skinny and only weigh 105 pounds and I am 14 years old so thats a little under weight for my age. So I am asking all you for advice. what do I do???

Please do not attempt to bypass the swear filter. ~Yash

xHaZxMaTx · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 9:36 pm

$50 says s/he's bigger than you. If so, point it out.

Wynni · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 9:45 pm

How's your quick quip ability? Being a girl, and having to deal with this kind of behavior, I quickly developed a rapier wit that left most bullies breathless.

I'd start by pointing out he either needs a dictionary, glasses, or both.

if that doesn't work, time to get devious :twisted: (here's where having good redneck friends comes in handy.)

Fabius Defessus · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:28 pm

I voted to fight him, but you're probably smaller that him. I'm HUGE for a freshman. I rival juniors in size so I handle the problem myself or end it before it starts. But since your smaller I would suggest that you try to travel with loyal friends just in case and don't let your hatred of him get out of control.

Isamaru · **Joined:** Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:20 pm **Posts:** 13

Find out why he's picking on you, be it a blunt way "Why are you being an A**" or get one of his friends to ask him and tell you and if it's something you can fix then do so and if not then take it to an authority figure.

wort-wort-wort · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:35 pm

Although I'm all for random fighting and killing, let's all calm down here. It sounds to me like he/she is calling you fat either because they're fat, or they know it bugs you so much. I've been bullying plenty of times, and so far ignoring them sees to be the best. For a matter like this however, let us refer to one situation I witnessed. These boys kept calling this one girl a caveman, it was relentless. Eventually some problem occured involving them and the school authorities caught wind of it. For the remainder of the year the boys were forbidden to harass the girl at all, or face severe punishment. I say ignore him, and if that doesn't work, tell your teacher/parent etc. or maybe keep a friend with you to stick up for you.

Fabius Defessus · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:44 pm

Isamaru wrote:

...then take it to an authority figure.

With you situation you should be quiet when you tell an adult because if another person finds out that you told an adult the bullying will increases seven fold.

Strider · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:47 pm

Rawr last person that tried to bully me got a broken nose XD (;) totally worth the 3 suspensions) quite simply if your going to fight, hit them in the face, a lot of them just seem to push you around an say retard lines like "say that to my face" when your standing right freakin in front of them >_<.

^^ more advice if you go for a fight, dont run at him- let him come to you then beat the crap outa him, if you go at him you'll end up grappling each other an since your skinny thats not a good idea man, keep rocking =D

oh an I don't endorse fighting people at all... (go for the low blow that'll teach him)

wort-wort-wort · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:50 pm

err... let's try not to get xbox hurt, shall we? 104 pounder isn't gonna do much to a big dumb oaf...

p.s. a great moment in 2kinds forum history! "our users have posted a total of 111111 articles"

Strider · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:04 pm

pshaw if he listened to my advice he'd at least have got that low blow in, which can be like 10 seconds of glory, then maybe like 10 minutes of getting his [censored] handed to him XD

edit: -.- spelling mistakes that I find despair me... because I suck at spelling

Fabius Defessus · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:06 pm

Strider wrote:

^^ more advice if you go for a fight, dont run at him- let him come to you then beat the crap outa him, if you go at him you'll end up grappling each other an since your skinny thats not a good idea man, keep rocking =D

oh an I don't endorse fighting people at all... (go for the low blow that'll teach him)

If you do fight (but don't if you like your limbs) take his advice,but I would suggest a low fighting stance people think that your going to get killed because you fight differently. If you do that and he comes at you, you can sidestep him and if your fast: trip him, get on his back, place both your hands on the bottom of his chin and pull his chin up. You might pin him down or cause pain (but that would just end in your trip to the E.R.) and if you do pin him wait for an adult and tell your side of the story but make it sound like your not at fault for the fight.

wort-wort-wort · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:15 pm

Fabius Defessus wrote:

Strider wrote:

^^ more advice if you go for a fight, dont run at him- let him come to you then beat the crap outa him, if you go at him you'll end up grappling each other an since your skinny thats not a good idea man, keep rocking =D

oh an I don't endorse fighting people at all... (go for the low blow that'll teach him)

If you do fight (but don't if you like your limbs) take his advice,but I would suggest a low fighting stance people think that your going to get killed because you fight differently. If you do that and he comes at you, you can sidestep him and if your fast: trip him, get on his back, place both your hands on the bottom of his chin and pull his chin up. You might pin him down or cause pain (but that would just end in your trip to the E.R.) and if you do pin him wait for an adult and tell your side of the story but make it sound like your not at fault for the fight.

maybe I meant... stop telling xbox how to fight... you'll give him/her bad ideas and it won't end well... even if xbox wins :?

Wynni · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:26 pm

For once, Wort is speaking sense. Only fight if
1. You know how to fight
2. You know you won't get caught

and most importantly
3. You know it will stop the abuse.

Rarely do even two of these occur in the case of a fight. Fights rarely end well, and even more rare that they actually solve a case of bullying (movies lie!).

I hate to say this, but Bullies are something I had to deal with my entire run of high school, this person may not go away unless given a very good reason to stay well clear of you.

maybe a rumor that the only reason he gets that close is because he wants you. :twisted:

hey, it might work. Feh, it might even be true.

Delusional Kangaroo · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:27 pm

Just ignore him. Fighting him won't get you anywhere. If it he's doing it every day, go to the principal or someone and tell them you're being harassed. If you really want to be vindictive, see about having them arrested for it. Yes, repeated harassment is illegal. :D

one strange cat · **Posted:** Thu Jan 10, 2008 11:44 pm

i vote scaring the living hell out of him
make yourself larger than him like taller and then going "why are you doing this man? why do you have to torture so badly? what are you gay trying to keep your urges by pushing down others?" i did that and i scared the bully so bad he avoids me

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